I'm ually attracted to a 16 year old and I'm 30, how do I bring up ?

look, no matter what all the putzes on here say, I'd personally wait till he hit 18 but that doesn't mean that you can't go out as friends and build a relationship over time and if the age of consent is 16 there then if something happens you are ok as long as you both understand that there is the chance that the relationship could go bad if it goes beyond friendship which may end up being hazardous to your roommate relationship (i.e. if you two date and break up you may not want to be roomies any more)